Social Intelligence by Daniel Goleman, Bantam (2006)
In the recent past, I read an essay, probably from a Best Zen Writing book, which included an excerpt from Social Intelligence. I was so impressed that I put this book on my to-be-read list. So in May of 2008, I got around to getting a copy. Wow, I was knocked out.
Goleman explores an emerging new science with startling implications for our interpersonal world. Studying our reactions to others and theirs to us, reveals a far-reaching biological impact:
Good Relationships=Positive impact on physical health
Bad Relationships=Poison to our bodies
Daniel Goleman has made me think about my relationships which exist solely through computer/Internet interaction and how this type of bonding can change how we feel and interact. Also, his sections on raising healthy-minded children and preserving healthy family relationships seem right on target to me. I wish I had this book 30 years ago when my first child was born.
Even more so, I enjoyed the sections on the dark side of narcissism and the inspiring techniques Goleman suggests for cultivating rewarding work relations. I also enjoyed reflecting on his presentation of sexual attraction and how we detect and feel honesty in our human interaction physically and virtually.
It’s hard to think anyone could not benefit greatly from reading this book. In fact, I recommend this book to anyone; it would be a positive use of your time.
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